This is such a recurrent question in our life. Is she really beautiful? (according to global parameters of prettiness, like if they existed haha!) and what makes a woman beautiful to a common men’s eyes? (and we sure look a lot).
“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”
We all have heard this expression now and then during our lives. And the truth is actually as simple as what that quote is telling you! Each person has is own and intimate image of perfection. It would be impossible for two people to draw the same perfect goddess, (maybe because the majority of us can’t draw; but even if everyone had the blessed hand of Leonardo Da Vinci, still then, one single painting being claimed as symbol of flawlessness, would be wrong and completely inaccurate).
The variety of traits all around the Earth are countless and some even unimaginable for me and you. Accordingly, worldwide tastes vary as much as phenotypic characteristics.
But let me expose to you, what my preferences are, so you can bully me with comments on how wrong you think I am.
For me, the ultimate girl would be blonde, with a tall and elegant body, not too curvy, with any kind of light-colored eyes (blue, green, gray…); just like the one in the picture above, that’s why I chose that beautiful woman to figure on this post (obviously…). So!? What do you think? You will probably call my taste pretty common and normal, as a lot of men like this attributes shown on a women. But let’s not forget the other half of male population who digs brunettes (the wise guys, because we all know blondes are dumb, right!?. Well, NO!, of course not).
Individual inclination may probably change depending on your life experiences, your geographical location, or even on how the first girl you fell in love with looked like.
But there is one aspect we can’t ignore, which is not the physical look but instead all the prettiness involving a woman’s mind (yes, a spongy brain can be so sexy! Really!) and the femininity inherent to the opposite sex.
Thus, I would recommend you (and this goes for me as well!) to challenge yourselves in the next time you meet a woman and try to discover something beyond what’s already at sight. And if you do it, you will see there is a lot of good stuff that lies beneath the surface, good stuff you would never find if you don’t dare to put aside your ideals for a moment, and go talk to that chubby weird-looking girl sitting right next to you.